Questions Group Leaders Ask 

What do I do if people give the wrong answer?
Seekers in your study might very well give unbiblical answers to a question. You have to make a decision at that point whether to confront it or simply let it go. We want seekers in our studies to have the freedom to share their thoughts and opinions and it is important that they feel respected and listened to. In the first few weeks of your studies it is best to let some of these answers go unchecked. You can affirm their response without agreeing to it. Here is an example from an actual 10 Keys group. In the first session, someone mentioned that they believe the world and people evolved but God oversaw the process. The leader decided that it was best not to go into a lengthy debate of this subject and simply said something to the effect that many people do believe that. He then guided the group back to what the implications of each theory were.

Another way to handle a wrong answer is defer to the group. You can say something like; "What do the rest of you think?" This allows the true answer to come out in the discussion naturally.

Another option is to bring the group back to a scripture passage. You can say something like: "Well, we're here to understand what the Bible has to say. Let's see if this passage sheds any light on the subject."

It is a tough job leading a group with seekers. God will give you discernment when to let something go, when to defer to the group and when to take them back to scripture.

How can I make a seeker feel comfortable?
Put yourself in their shoes. Many seekers do not have a lot of Bible knowledge so they are concerned they will look foolish. You can help to diffuse this by keeping the discussion at a basic level. Don't use Christian jargon they will not understand. Don't put them on the spot by calling on them to answer. They will answer when they are ready. Also, seekers are concerned they will be pressured into believing something or will be preached at. This is why it is very important for you to allow seekers to discover the truths of the Bible themselves. Hold yourself back. Let them discuss their ideas and come to conclusions on their own about what the Bible is saying.

What should I do when people quit showing up?
Most people will not be able to attend all ten sessions. If someone misses a session, you might just want to let it go. If they miss two in a row it might be worth e-mailing or calling them to let them know you missed them. In the conversation you could ask if there was anything that drove them away. You might learn something valuable that will help you to lead more effectively next time. Above all, don't make them feel pressured or guilty if they decide to drop out. God is not on our timeline and may have a different plan for them.

What if the Christians in my group are dominating the study so the seekers don't have a chance to say anything?
This can happen and you need to address it immediately. After the study, talk to the Christians alone and tell them that you want to help draw out those who are newer to Bible Study. Enlist them as you ally in the process. Encourage them to hold back so the others will talk.